Collaboration

There's a set of words in Japanese 「お蔭様で。。。」 which mean "Thanks to your support..."  These words are usually followed by a report of an accomplishment or finished task.  This phrase is a very accute verbal recognition that we are all dependent on one another and that our work relationships are priority when trying to achieve goals.  It acknowledges that we couldn't have made it without the help of those around us, regardless of the kind or capacity of their contributions.


This comes out of the group-oriented tradition of Japan.  Yet, more than that, its spirit dwells in the idea that success is always shared and that the fruits of our labor can nourish our entire inner circle of family, colleagues and friends.  Another Japanese phrase 「ご協力してありがとう」 or "Thanks for your cooperation" doesn't quite sum up this kind of spirit since it is usually directed at customers from a shop keeper or store owner.


When we begin with the notion of thanking someone for their support, we are also including them in the process that we undertook in order to grow.  We're offering them their due respect as well as relating to them how important their influence is to that process.  This kind of giving of thanks works to reinforce the positive aspects of the relationship, as opposed to blaming someone when we fail which only highlights the negative aspects.  It is an important first step to reinforce continued success for everyone and to maintain a harmonious balance in our interpersonal relationships.